Title: 23/7: Pelican Bay and the Rise of Long-term Solitary Confinement
Author: Keramet Reiter
Publisher: Yale University Press
I REALLY wanted to like this book, but it lacked a lot of content. Even though it gave you some background on how Pelican Bay and the SHU came about, I just felt it was too statistically out there. The author focused mainly on two individuals. While it gave you a little glimpse on the inside of what these prisoners have endured, I still wish she would’ve used more inmates’ personal experiences. This book does give you some great research ideas and does give you an idea of the life of a prisoner, but I wanted more.
If you do want to read about Solitary Confinement and some perspectives from a few inmates, check out:
Hell is a Very Small Place: Voices of Solitary Confinement- Jean Casella, James Ridgeway, and Sarah Shourd (no endorsement for this book) I really feel like you get that more personal, in-depth look you want in the life of a solitary confinement prisoner.
I really wanted to write more in this review, but there’s only so much you can write about something you didn’t really enjoy.
I was seeing this book floating around on Goodreads and then I happened to come across it on Netgalley as a ARC and I’m so glad I chose to review this. This book is more than just its Social Science context, it’s a deep look into the life of a woman whose life hasn’t been all peaches and cream.
Life hasn’t been very kind to Stephanie and her daughter Mia. Without the help of Stephanie’s parents and Mia’s father, Jamie, things spiral out of control for Stephanie. Maid is about her journey to provide a better life for her daughter Mia while getting bits of help from our rather broken public assistance program and the low pay she received from her being a maid. When you hear the word maid, you instantly think of the rich and their black and white starched uniforms, talking all proper. In reality being a maid is washing dirty drawers, picking out pubes from a dirty bathroom, scrubbing and cleaning every dirty crevice you can imagine. Yet, these maids are looked down upon as the lowest of lows, not treated with respect and earning a ghastly wage, on top of that looked down upon those with fancy desk jobs or who were fortunate enough to not know the word:”struggle”. Unfortunately, Stephanie was a single mother and public assistance only took her so far, constantly going through food shortages because of lack of funds, constantly wondering where she was going to leave her daughter, wondering how much she would make everyday. It’s really a grueling situation trying to figure out how to pay your next bill or figure out your next meal on a measly pay. I know exactly how it’s like, because me and my husband have found ourselves knocking on evictions door. It wasn’t because we weren’t doing what we were supposed to do, it’s more of his job not doing their part in paying him while he was on a disability leave; 3 months back pay from his disability leave company. I honestly was very upset at the fact that Stephanie’s parents (although sometimes they helped) didn’t give her that support that she needed. They were judging the hell out of her and they seemed to choose their new partners/family over Stephanie. Another thing that bothered me was how much of a piece of crap Jamie was to Stephanie while she was trying to her very best to get up everyday and go to work. He boasted about being a great parent and a better person than Stephanie, but he would be abusive and say hurtful things to the person that’s supposed to be the mother of his child. I personally don’t judge anyone that needs public assistance or anything like that because there are legit people out there who need it. There’s people out there who pay their taxes and work, but it still just isn’t enough. Don’t think because a person makes $20 an hour, that that is it. NO! You have to factor in how much taxes they’re taking out, you have to factor in their bills, they food, if they have a kid etc. It’s not easy, and I really hated how much of a hard time they would give Stephanie at the grocery store because the used a WIC check or EBT card; the looks given by other people because she was getting help from the government. As a former cashier for supermarkets, I always treated people with EBT and WIC checks with respect and never any differently than those who paid with a credit/debit card and cash. If I saw someone with a WIC check, I would close my lane for the time I am with the customer and I make sure to tell any other customer that approaches my line that I’m closed for the moment to do some paperwork (I know sometimes people don’t like for other people to know they use it…because…duh!…Stigmas).If they get the wrong thing, I just go get it quick and efficiently, no need to shame them. I admire Stephanie for all her hard work and determination, as well as writing about her experiences. Often times people may say people who blog or write about their lives are whiners and complainers, but I beg to differ. Writing is an outlet for many; sometimes it’s the only thing they have. Because of that, people got to see what she truly went through and how she felt. How everything she did and continues to do is for the well-being of her daughter. I hope that she continues being successful and she gets everything she deserves. I really enjoyed this book and it made me really open my eyes to how hard maids have it; how much they sacrifice. I would recommend this book to everyone, especially those who believe the stigmas of those less unfortunate to be wealthy.
I was super excited to finally get my paws on this beautiful memoir. I’ve been stalking it at my job for a few weeks and when I finally got some cash, I purchased it without hesitation. This book took me forever to read because of adult responsibilities, but I’m pretty sure I would’ve devoured it a whole lot sooner. Honestly, I felt a certain emptiness after finishing it because I didn’t want it to end. This book was everything I thought it would be and more. It was so beautifully written.
I’ve never been one to cry over books or even so much as get watery eyes. But after losing my grandmother, I’ve been super sensitive especially with books. This book had me very sentimental to the point where I had to PUT THE BOOK DOWN because I needed a good cry. I knew the pain she felt and I had to sit back and reflect on my own situation. This isn’t a political book by any means, of course, there’s talks about it but it was about her life, her struggles, her successes, her losses, her wins, her love for her prince charming, the joy of motherhood, and her life as a First Lady.
Michelle came from a homey apartment in Euclid Avenue in downtown Chicago. With two hard-working, and strong parents. Her parents always wanted the best for her and her older brother Craig. As a kid, Michelle was feisty, determined, smart, and not one to be disrespected! However, behind her tough exterior, she was also harsh on herself deep down inside. Her parents were upfront of any questions Michelle and Craig might’ve had. They were down to earth parents, but they were very involved in their children’s lives, and they treated their kids like..well little adults. They trusted their kids would make the right decisions. I really admire Michelle. She was very focused on her education and making sure she did good. She was very humble as well. In one part, she discusses how her school had a break and they offered a trip to Paris, but she didn’t bother asking her parents because she knew how much they sacrificed for her and her brother to get a good education as is. She ended up doing great on her academics and was attempting to get into Princeton, a school her HS guidance counselor said she would never get into. Michelle reminded me of myself sometimes, and I love when I read a book and you can relate to the character, especially books on actual people.
I especially loved how she started talking about Barack (the sweetest ever). How she came to meet him and when they eventually hit it off. Barack is definitely a dreamy type of dude.I love that he was respectful of her and her family. How articulate and literary of a person he was (I really love his love for books). It was really great to see how her life turned out to be once she got together with Barack. Even though Politics wasn’t her thing, she still beside him with her two girls by her side. I will admit I got very angry when I read how babyish the republicans were about Barack being in office, and the countless awful things they said about Michelle and Barack. I love the fact that they were a historic first family. I think it’s amazing that they were so down to earth and just humble (something that obviously bothered people), but I think that’s what made people love them even more. It was really sad to read about her departure from the white house. I know all the people that worked for them were sad to see them go.
I overall enjoyed this book and it’s easily on my favorites of all time list. I recommend this book not on a political level, but on a human level. This book will definitely touch you.
It’s time to share those TBR lists for the upcoming new year. I know that I’m definitely going to try to read everything on my list. I have NO EXCUSES now. I literally work at a bookstore.
I have a little over 10 titles I want to read….OKI lied!…more like 36 titles that I absolutely must read without a doubt. And since I am shooting for 100 books this year on my goodreads challenge, it really doesn’t matter. Ever since I started working at a bookstore, my love for reading has come back and I’ve read 4 books alone this month. Sometimes you just need a little push you know. I’m looking forward to reading the following titles this year and of course there’s many more, but these really tug at my bookworm heart strings.
1.Just After Midnight: Catherine Ryan Hyde
2.The Tattooist of Auschwitz: Heather Morris
3. The Woman in the Window: A.J. Finn
4. Heavy: An American Memoir: Kiese Laymon
5. What if it’s Us: Adam Silvera
6. 1,000 Books to Read Before you Die: A Life Changing List- James Mustich
Title:Feeding My Mother: Comfort and Laughter in the Kitchen as My Mom Lives with Memory Loss
Jann Arden captured her experience with caring for her parents who had dementia. I can only imagine how heartbreaking, frustrating, and tiresome all this must’ve been for her. I myself have lost my grandmother, not in the same fashion as her but, I did and still felt a lot of guilt because I know I got frustrated a lot too with my grandmother taking care of her. It was always me doing the work and I myself was working a full-time job and going to school full-time as well. But, now after going through all this ordeal after her death I really wish she was still around. I felt a lot of emotions reading this book. It was refreshing to see all the great recipes Jann incorporated into her book. I actually want to try some of them out. I really think people who are dealing with a family member suffering from dementia or anything that requires them to be taking care of constantly should read this. You’ll cry, you’ll laugh, you’ll be angry, but that’s what a great book does.
Author: John Pasarella
I was super excited to start this novel as I’ve seen the movie 3x in the theaters(would’ve been more if the theaters weren’t so small and there wasn’t a lot of people). I thoroughly enjoyed the novel. I’m glad there were certain parts in the novel that weren’t in the movie, simply because it was unnecessary. A lot of horror movies nowadays have too much things that can be left out, and they don’t focus too much on the horror aspect of the movie. Also I’ve noticed people make horror movies into comedy and that turns me off when I go to the theaters. I think Passarella did a great job captivating the movie onto pages. I felt like I was watching it all over again.
Overall a good recommendation for all Halloween fans.
I purchased this book at Barnes&Noble on one of my many normal visits. I was always fascinated with the Kennedy family, especially Jackie. This book was written beautifully. Clint Hill and Mrs. Kennedy’s relationship is a prime example of respect, integrity, trust, and heroism. I haven’t read many books on the Kennedy’s, but this book felt so personal…so respectful. Clint Hill was the assigned Secret Service agent assigned to Jacqueline Kennedy. I honestly can understand why Mrs. Kennedy preferred Mr. Hill as Secret Service agent. He was smart, articulate, respectful, professional, compliant, and always had Mrs. Kennedy’s safety in mind. Mr. Hill went above and beyond in his job and always made sure things were prepared in advance for Mrs. Kennedy whenever she needed something. The fact that he waited so long to publish this book shows his respect and also his feelings about the whole situation. You can really tell Mr. Hill is a sincere man and not just doing this for a quick buck. I can’t thank him enough for being such a great protector of Mrs. Kennedy and giving us a glimpse into her private life, as well as the time he spent with the Kennedy’s, especially Mrs. Kennedy. This book mad me feel many emotions; very beautiful.
I picked up this book finally from my own private library and I honestly don’t know why it took me so long to pick it up. Anthony Allen Shore was a sick, twisted, and deranged individual. He used his intelligence, charm, and wit to try and outsmart the police and people around him. This book put me through a roller coaster of emotions and it baffled me that things like this really happened.What really surprised me is how his wife had no clue about what was going on, especially what was going on with her daughters; sickening. I’ve been on a true crime/serial killer binge and I can thank this book for doing that for me.
Title: I’d Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of The Reading Life
Author: Anne Bogel
Publisher: Baker Books
This is one of those of the books that makes you feel all warm and tingly inside, especially if you’re an avid reader, bookworm, bibliophile..whatever you want to call yourself. This Book is a collection of essays from Anna Bogel and I often found myself nodding along and exclaiming “yes! me too”. I love reading books that have to do with reading because it’s refreshing to hear and see things from another book lover’s point of view. Please do pick up a copy of this book, it’s amazing and will definitely make you smile. I do have a few passages that reminded me of myself and my love for literature, and even though I’m not one of those classic book readers, I’ve learned from reading this book that it’s ok not to be a certain type of reader.
Fave passages: -“The same book means different things to different people, or in different seasons of life. Since reading is personal, it can be tricky.” (Bogel, p.22) -“I don’t carefully plan-and yet it’s uncanny how often I seem to be reading just the right book at just the right time.” (Bogel, p.40) -“If the right book has almost magically appeared in your life at the right time to hold your hand for the journey-you know it feels like a special kind of grace.” (Bogel, p.43) -“As a child, whenever I felt a little out of place in my one life, sometimes I wished I could exchange my reality for the world in the pages, which seemed a little more meaningful and a lot more interesting than my own ordinary experience.”(Bogel, p.84)
Title: Mortuary Confidential: Undertakers Spill the Dirt
Author: Kenneth McKenzie and Todd Harra
Publisher: Citadel Press
After my grandmother’s death last year, and after being around so many deceased people, I’ve been interested in Mortuary Science. So I decided to download some books that had to do with mortuary science and of course, real life situations. This book was definitely filled with quirky and funny moments, and a lot of the stories also hit home. Losing my grandmother was one of the hardest things I have ever been through and honestly it still affects me. After reading through all the situations these undertaker’s go through, I must say….It sounds very interesting to me, and I wouldn’t mind opening my own funeral home someday. Another thing that kind of pushed me to pursue this career is when I saw my grandmother at the funeral the day of her wake, I wasn’t satisfied with how she was prepped. She had false teeth in the bottoms and since they had to take them out, they stuffed her mouth and it looked a little bit over done. And I thought maybe I should pursue this career so I can make the loved ones of the deceased satisfied with the caring of their loved one. I know I would never want someone else to feel that way. Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed it and I definitely see myself doing some of the clumsy antics some of the undertaker’s went through. lol. Besides, it’s a lot easier dealing with the dead than the living.